Shelagh, many of your memories of Lippstadt are similar to my memories growing up as a Canadian "Army brat."
We, too, were bussed on Army buses to and from school. Many of our families lived out in various small villages and towns around Hemer or Werl or Soest and I realize now it must have been a major logistical issue to organize the daily pick-up of young kids ranging in age from 6 to 18. Clearly, HQ knew where every single Canadian family was...not something I gave much thought to back then, certainly not during our first tour circa 1959-62 but not much during 2nd tour (69-72) either. Such things just "were."
But I do recall each bus, and there would be several, was assigned a young corporal to be the "bus monitor." Again, looking back, I have no doubt many of these young men, some barely 20 years old if that, loathed being assigned such duty but I suppose it was better than many other duties they could have been assigned! (KP springs to mind)
He would always be turned out in battle dress (?), putties and boots and after reading your post I do now seem to recall some, at least, carrying a little 'swagger stick.' Never saw it used on anyone LOL, as tempting as that no doubt was.
I quite agree with you about the difference in discipline between then and now. We too were very conscious our behaviour in public would reflect on our fathers and no doubt if one of us acted up or some-such on the bus, it would be reported to the CO and our dads would be called up on the carpet over it. If so, there'd be hell to pay when he got home!
Of course, some of us were little hellers anyway. Not me, of course. Seriously. :-)
The cafe where you were able to get a cuppa was almost certainly run by the Red Shield/Sally Ann. They had a monopoly LOL
Interesting you found our MLS a "revelation" after your NAAFI. We used to visit the NAAFI and while we were struck by the differences in availability and level of stock, found the NAAFI fairly okay in many ways. I'm not sure about the pricing differences, if any, but I suspect MLS was probably a tad cheaper.
I actually bought my first stereo at the Soest NAAFI while I was back there working in 1973. Of course, I wasn't supposed to, not being a dependent anymore, but they didn't know that! It was a Kenwood. A nightmare to ship back to Canada, but then when I bought it my plan was to NOT return to Canada but to stay on in Germany; that didn't quite work out, sad to say.
I absolutely empathize with you crying when your tour was over.
When we left Germany in 1972 to return to Canada, I was 18 and didn't want to leave. Canada wasn't home, Soest and Germany were.
By then the Canadians had transferred everything and everybody, except for my family, down to Lahr in the Black Forest Region. My dad remained in the old Brigade Area to complete the Close-out and transfer stuff to BAOR. In order to get an Army flight back to Canada we had to get ourselves from Iserlohn (where we were then living) down to Lahr.
I spent the weekend prior to our leaving up in Soest with my best buddy to say goodbye.
When we got to Lahr and were staying in the army hotel on base, we got word from front desk that Juergen, my buddy, was asking for us at the desk. He had hitch-hiked down from Soest to Lahr (approx. 500km).
We spent the next couple of days checking out the gasthofs in Lahr and then it was time to board the plane and fly off across the Atlantic. Juergen refused to leave, despite my dad arranging a ride back up to Soest for him.
I will always remember seeing Juergen standing on the tarmac as the plane lifted off and remaining there, getting smaller and smaller, as we ascended until I could no longer see him.
I think I cried all the way across the Atlantic leaving everything I grew to identify with, love, and know behind...I couldn't get back to Germany fast enough! (took me a year and some, but I got back).