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Hi, I'm Katherine. My mom is Marlies/Maria from Paderborn. She conceived me with a British solder that, according to 23andMe genealogy test, is from the greater London area. I am hoping someone recognizes her.

Disclaimer, I have no fairytale notion of instant family but having been raised in the US as the child of a Native American veteran, I'd like to finally get resolution to what I had suspected since I was 8 years old and get some information/history of my paternity.

Thank you in advance! Pictures attached are my mom when she was a teen (she was 23 in April/May 1978) and one of me last year (hope I uploaded correctly).

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UPDATE 7/2/21: I have located a half brother via MyHeritage and messaged him. He is in the UK. My message to you, I have to say when it comes to your children, be honest! Give them the facts and let them make up their own minds with the information. Lying/gaslighting/denying, it always catches up to you in the end. "The truth shall set you free." If your kid is smart, they will eventually find out anyways. Now soldiers, I grew up in the US military, I get it! Many men are going to find out they have children they never knew about. Don't be afraid and please don't deny reality. Someone else may need closure and/or resolution. Talk honestly about what you're afraid of because I get that too. Like I said, I have no fairytale notions of a family reunion. You can be open-minded and have good boundaries. Thank you


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Localisation : Norfolk, UK
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Places Served : Carlisle AAS, Aden, Hildesheim, Bordon, Fallingbostel, Dover, NI Tours, Osnabruck, Herford, Muenster, UN Nicosia, SBA Dhekellia Cyprus x2, Waterbeach, Civi Street 1988. Retired from VOSA 2007.
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Welcome,
Yes photos are shown ok.

Alan

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PostSubject: Re: Paderborn April/May 1978. Do you know this German woman?    Paderborn April/May 1978. Do you know this German woman?  Icon_minitime16/6/2021, 08:18

Hi,
You need to develop a family tree for the matches you have that seem to connect to the man concerned.

Try Facebook Group 'DNA Detectives' who have searchers on there who have experience of this sort of search.
Margaret

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Localisation : Melksham, Wiltshire
Cap Badge : REME
Places Served : AAS Arborfield, 5 Inf Wksps then 14 Regt. RA Dortmund, 1 Inf Wksps Aden, 22 Sigs Lippstadt, REBCS then 65CSS RE Hameln, Borden, 15/19 H then 9/12 Lancers Tidworth, 4 ADSR, Herford, QoH then 4/7 DGuards Detmold.
Registration date : 2019-03-28

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Nice looking lady. Hope you find what you're looking for.
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